Last week I had the good fortune to attend an event called MegaSuccess. Operated by the JT Foxx Organization, MegaSuccess is often billed as the Super Bowl of Business Conferences.

This is the second year that I have attended the conference which featured approximately 2500 people from over 80 countries around the world. JT Foxx bills himself as the “World’s #1 Wealth and Business Coach.” While many people might quibble with that moniker, it is apparent that JT has an extremely loyal following and that he works very hard on behalf of his clients.

If you are able to look past some of his shtick, you will see that JT spends countless hours and many dollars traveling the world and help business owners get to the next level. He encourages them, pushes them and breaks them down, getting them to recognize their own self-imposed limitations. Though many people want to compare him to Tony Robbins, I believe that you will find them quite different in approach and in focus. While Tony focuses on getting you to look into yourself and get yourself to a better place, JT tends to put more emphasis on making you successful at your business and teaching you how to monetize your strengths and opportunities.

One common complaint that I have seen and heard online, is that people question the value of his courses or his coaching. I will tell you that if you spend the time participating in his events and following his coaching sessions, you will certainly gain value. If you look at anyone who is successful, they likely have multiple coaches for different parts of their life. I can imagine someone hiring a hitting coach for baseball or a golf instructor and proclaiming them a fraud if you can’t hit HRs or break 80 on the course…without the dedicated time and effort you need to succeed.

As an overall experience, MegaSuccess is a true bargain. If you don’t want some of the add-ons which are offered, you can attend for only $99.00 for over 5 days of the conference. There are speakers from around the world telling their stories, some more effectively than others. The key element is the people you have a chance to meet and the celebrities you get to learn from. A partial list of the celebrities who participated in this year’s event included (in no particular order):

• Dr. Phil
• Gabriel Macht (Harvey Spector from Suits)
• Vanilla Ice
• Vince Vaughn
• Gary Kasparov (Chess Champion)
• Hugh Hilton
• George Ross (President Trump’s former right hand man)
• Moira Forbes
• Jillian Michaels
• Omarosa
• Kimora
• Jay Abraham
• Fred Dunn
• Andrea Navedo
• Frank McKinney (Real Estate investor)
• Dolph Lungren (Russian from Rocky movie series)
• Steadman Graham
• Russell Peters (Comedian)
• Gilbert Godfried (Comedian)
• Steve Mandell (JT’s agent and media personality)
• Andre Phillip Gagnon

When you get an opportunity to hear from all of these people, what you realize is that there is an abundance of information delivered in a short amount of time. Last year I failed to take any notes at all and just absorbed the comments. This year I made a more concerted effort to get down some of the highlights. Next year, I feel that I will make a better effort to really get proper notes from more of the sessions.

Another element that makes this conference unique, is that JT Foxx does not attempt to sell programs from the stage or the back of the room. Sure, there is a whole Foxx Shop with his signature ties, bobbleheads and apparel, but you can truly capture the benefit without spending additional money unless YOU feel that there is enough value for you.

I would highly encourage you to attend in 2020. If you want more info, please feel free to reach me to discuss.

I was fortunate enough to get an opportunity to be a VIP Guest at the Dr. Phil Show today.  Now, do not confuse that with being a guest ON the Dr. Phil Show.  I was merely an audience member, though having good seats and early access, gave us a tremendous view of the proceedings, including all of the pre-event work that goes into pulling off a production of that scale.

As someone who has put together events, it is impressive to me to see all of the moving parts come together.  Even before we got into the studio, the number of people involved in organizing the crowd, taking and securing our cell phones, lining people up, moving people to the right locations, granting access in priority order and keeping people in the proper areas was impressive.

Once in the studio, there was a whole additional set of workers placing us in seats and walking around during the pre-show hours to make sure that nobody was chewing gum, had on a jacket or sunglasses or was holding a purse or anything else on their lap.  They seated people in groups fairly efficiently though there were certain seating sections where they only wanted shorter people and my towering 5’10” frame was apparently too tall J

The set was quite elegant and heavily based on screens on which images could be projected set inside light wood frames.   There were 5 large rolling cameras moving around the stage, as well as a large boom camera and one hand-held close up camera.

Each day of shooting seems to consist of filming two episodes.  While we only see the finished production on TV, there is an enormous amount of work that goes into preparing each episode. When you look at the research into the backstory, the video production of the elements in the show, the film clips, securing the guests, and learning the substance of each show.  Despite having a teleprompter and holding a binder with more details, Dr. Phil was impressive in his command of the facts and details surrounding the show.  The amount of information he has to process for each show is vast and even with a few misstatements or periods where you could hear” him re-processing info, his performance demonstrated a remarkable ability to capture info quickly.

The first episode was very interesting.  The second, extremely disturbing.

The first one dealt with the false reporting of a hate crime, focusing on the incident in which Empire actor Jussie Smollett reported being attacked by two men in Chicago.  There was a very interesting discussion with a number of commentators about the potential for a chilling impact on other hate crime victims.  Not surprisingly, at least to me, the audience poll did not seem to support the concept that they would be less likely to believe a victim of a hate crime.  In fact, the reality seemed to be that the audience was not particularly influenced by false report.  The bigger issue, was whether law enforcement would become more skeptical. The data seems to show that only a tiny, tiny fraction of incidents seem to have been falsely reported, though how that data is measured seemed a bit suspect (i.e. is it based on proven” falsity, recanted claims or only those that do not result in prosecution). There was a lot of discussion of the Smollett case in particular, and while there are quite a few inconsistencies in his story, the facts that seem most compelling to me are the facts about the night of the attack.  Here are the things that Smollett apparently did after being attacked, having a noose placed on his neck and having bleach thrown on him:

• Went out in a polar vortex to pick up a Subway sandwich.  This seems unlikely to me given that nobody wanted to go out in that weather. Seems more likely that he would have ordered in and also seems to make it more unlikely that the perpetrators would be out on the street.
• Walked calmly back to his building—still holding the Subway sandwich bag that he apparently went out to pick up.  Seems to me that if you got attacked, you would not still be holding the Subway sandwich.
• Walked into his building without mentioning anything to the doorman.  Seems to me that the doorman would know you fairly well at this point and there would be some discussion or some likelihood the doorman would see the noose around your neck
• Was still wearing the noose 45 minutes later when police arrived.  Seems to me that you would want that taken off. I realize that victims are told to preserve trace evidence for forensics but I think most people would have removed it and put it on the counter.

To me, the weight of the evidence goes against Smollett, not because of the stories, but because the physical evidence doesn’t seem to support an attack. There should be more evidence of what happened given the magnitude of the attack.

It will be interesting to follow this story more closely after having seen this show.

After filming most of the show, it was interesting to watch the retakes of a few statements or intros that will be used on various parts of other episodes or substitute in for part of this episode.  Dr. Phil came out to discuss a few points on the issues involved in this show before everyone was led outside for a break.

During the break, they supplied energy bars and bottles of water and people had a chance to hit the restrooms.  After about 30 minutes, they led everyone back into the studio, in priority order again.  People were put into different seats to give the appearance of different episodes.  I got separated from my cohorts who were able to get placed closer to the stage, a decision they would later regret when they heard the content of the episode. I was placed in the last row which is still close to the stage.  The entire studio holds less than 300 people per episode.  Most notably, our row was given clear advice from the boom camera operator that we were not allowed to stand up, no matter what Dr. Phil asked from the audience.  The camera came within quite close range to our heads throughout the episode.

As I mentioned early, the second episode was disturbing.  It involved a woman who had been physically abused, sexually abused and literally tortured by the people purporting to be her own parents.  Purporting because they were not her birth parents and they never formally adopted her.  They took her from a home on a trial” basis to see if she would be a fit for the couple, a preacher and his wife.  They used her as a slave for the family members and the torture she suffered is truly unthinkable and unspeakable.  Nevertheless, I will attempt to give a few examples, and as you read this list, keep in mind that this list is NOT exhaustive of the incidents that we heard about (and certainly not exhaustive of the suffering she went through):

• Thrown down the stairs strapped into her high-chair
• Fingers smashed with a hammer against the floor
• Portion of tongue ripped out with a pliers and hedge trimmer
• Repeatedly sexually assaulted
• Placed on a toilet and told not to move.  Talc powder placed around the base of the toilet so that they could see if she stepped off the toilet. She was told that she would be beaten if they saw footprints in the talc.  And then left there.  For several days.  With no food.
• Honestly, we heard so many other stories that I cannot recall right now, I am guessing because I blocked them out of my mind because they were so gruesome.

What was perhaps most disturbing in the story was hearing how many times the system failed her.  At multiple points she was examined and evaluated, and each time, the relevant authorities returned her to the care of the parents.  She had over 200 wounds, and scars and yet when a hospital evaluated her, they continued to put her back in that home.

Ultimately the parents were tried and sentenced.  The victim still had feelings for her parents despite everything that they had done to her.  It was amazing to hear her articulate that she still loved them in a weird way.  She was nervous and fidgeting throughout the show. Her leg was constantly tapping and at various points she was in tears.

I cannot even fathom the abuse and torture she suffered, especially from parents.  I cannot even begin to conceive of how another person could intentionally inflict this abuse on an ongoing basis.  It seemed like the mother” was the primary driving force and eventually was successful in persuading the father” to cooperate with the abuse.

Walking out of the studio, the audience was mostly in a stunned silence.  In contrast to the energy at the break after an interesting first episode, the mood was completely subdued.

Overall, it was a very interesting experience and unique opportunity to get a close-up view of the long running show.